The kind of love Lopez believes in is “not in the actor's DNA.” “He hasn’t given himself completely to someone else, and it seems like he never will. That kind of big love that Jennifer believes in, that total dedication? Ben even got into the game for a while and wanted to be a part of it, but he’s not that kind of person.”

Affleck's extreme mood swings could have “toxicated” the relationship. “They’ve been trying to work on the relationship, but the mood swings, with the big highs and the big lows, have brought about a toxicity that’s rampant,” a source told People magazine. “No one can help you, only you can help yourself.”

The actor often appeared “sullen” next to his wife, and was unable to hide his unstable mood even from the press. “You can see erratic behavior, massive mood swings. [Ele ia de] “Incredibly happy and warm, with a light emanating from a very dark demeanor.”

I won't say there's no love between the two, of course there is. The world was rooting for them, but the one who said it was him and the one who showed himself were two different people. Source: People Magazine

Jennifer is said to have been “tired of waiting” for Affleck and chose the date on which she filed for divorce: their second wedding anniversary. “She tried so hard to do this work and she was heartbroken.”